What Do We Learn from Jennifer Lopez’s Cougar Dating?

The life of Jennifer Lopez can be summed up as true rags to riches story. A talented singer, good actor and naturally good looking, she can be described as a woman of substance. But in this journey she has also been engaged with different men with the likes of Ben Affleck being one of the many in her long list of lovers. She has also been married to Marc Anthony, the enigmatic singer of ‘Let it Rain’. She has had it all and if you are Jennifer Lopez then it is but natural that you will also have something special and different in your life and therefore enters Casper Smart.

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Casper Smart is the new lover of Jennifer and has been so for some time now. There are two things that you need to know about Casper Smart and that is, firstly he is a backup dancer at the live performances of Jennifer Lopez and two he is younger than her. It is safe to say that Casper knows how to date a cougar firsthand. People were shocked and many perplexed when they got to know that the ‘Jenny from the Block’ singer was dating a backup singer. It is a phenomenon that is seen a lot in singers.

Apparently, female singers have a tendency to fall for their backup dancers. One of the examples that come to mind is that of Arianna Grande who was allegedly spotted kissing one of the backup dancers. Another huge celebrity whose name is worth mentioning in this long list of female artists falling for their backup dancer is that of Britney Spears. She went as far as marrying the guy and spending a considerable amount time with him but eventually it all broke apart. So we can say that Jennifer was not really alone in dating their backup dancers.

Another famous celebrity known for her cougar dating life is Madonna. Some have gone as far as saying that Jennifer Lopez has just followed the footsteps of this great singer. Jennifer first met Casper in one of her shows and was smitten by him and the rest is history. But it must be said that the whole dating business couldn’t have been easy for Casper. Not only did he have to date a celebrity like Jennifer Lopez whose stature is more than enough to overshadow his but she is older and wiser than him.

Casper can be described as the yin to Jenny’s yang. They both have a fire in them and want to lead an exciting life, so in a way they are almost perfect for each other. But let’s face it; it’s not an easy job to date a rich cougar, especially when she is Jennifer Lopez. The first thing that will be a hindrance to the lovebird is privacy. Jennifer is always surrounded by paparazzi and therefore anyone in her proximity will also be within their periphery and more so if they know that he is dating J.LO. But somehow they have made it through till now without having a major problem with the paparazzi. Casper has somehow managed to be alright with the focus falling on him, courtesy being the celebrity boyfriend.

Moreover, dating a rich cougar like Jennifer would also have given him the title of a gold digger, which he has taken care of good as well. He is unfazed by what people have been talking about him. Knowing how to date a cougar is an art and Casper has mastered it up until now. He has been a gentleman to Jennifer and has not any signs of being a money hungry backup dancer that people thought of him. Plus he has also been truly loyal to jenny which has also won her heart. One thing that any cougar wants from her lover is loyalty and when that is showered on her she is on cloud nine, so that is another tick in the box for Casper Smart.

It seems that the 18 year age gap has not really hurt the couple at all. It was recently surfaced that Casper had accompanied Jennifer and her twins for Morocco and before that, Hawaii. It seems that Casper knows what to do. For any woman whether she is a cougar or not, her children are the world and Jenny is no different, so it was imperative that Casper had to win over the kids. And he did, which tells Jennifer that Casper is actually serious about being in the relationship and that is an assurance that a cougar needs. So there is another lesson from the Casper Smart Handbooks as to how to date a cougar.

What has really worked for Casper Smart is the fact that he is a clean guy; at least he is as far as his habits are concerned. He is known as someone who doesn’t drink or party hard and is known to be a devout Christian. Although being a free spirit, he is known to be soft spoken and up to certain limit shy when asked about his alleged relation with Jennifer Lopez. This is something that will always work with a cougar as it tells her that her boy doesn’t want to flaunt the relation. It also means that he is not in the relation to have his fifteen minutes of fame for being with her. So, this round also goes to Casper.

We must say that Casper has done his homework on dating a rich cougar and has been really smart about his relationship with Jennifer. No one thought that this cougar relationship would ever last or was even a serious one. But the pictures on the various websites are more than enough evidence that it is. What is more promising for this celebrity cougar couple or CCC is that the family of Casper has also welcomed Jenny into their life. In one interview Roy, Casper’s father also welcomed Jenny into their home. All we can say is that the sun is smiling for this Cougar.

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